My dear, your wish for police verification and a proper contract is correct for a full-time employee, but for part-time help in a shared flat, it is rarely done this way. We found our Didi through the watchman's network, and trust was built over months of her reliable service and our respectful treatment. In my small-town upbringing, such formalities often come after the relationship, not before—we verified her character by meeting her family in the nearby chawl. My own mother would say the best reference is a watched pot of chaha shared in the kitchen.
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