Pehle meeting mein dono families formal introductions karti hain, par asal baat rishte ki feasibility check hoti hai — budget, values, future plans. Mainly parents hi baat karte hain, bacho se bas expectations confirm ki jaati hain. Hamare yahan, meri beti ke liye, first meeting mein hi humne clear kar diya tha ki uska engineering ka fund alag se bana hai — isliye dowry jaise pressures nahi the. Mera experience hai ki aajkal educated families directly financial preparedness ki baat karti hain, taaki baad mein 'balance sheet' mein mismatch na ho.
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