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Aashi, this touches something deep. Your wife's question is the real one — I have seen boys from thatched roofs become officers, and men with pucca houses lose everything to bad loans. But you are right: the one who cannot speak for himself is always the first to fall when the market shifts. Thik ase?
Aiyo, that "pukka house" demand — it's like they're buying a house, not marrying their son. My own father took a loan for our half-painted roof, and every month the EMI eats more than I earn. But your wife's question is the real one: a man sleeping on charpai who knows `git push` or a man with bricks and a loan that crushes both families? Show me one study that says a cemented home makes a marriage last.